[If you're looking for "Never Shoot a Sunset," the third and final post in my Writing Lessons from Photographers series, you'll find it here early next week. In the meantime, stick around and meet Annabelle - oh, and let me share with you some awesome ways to recharge your writing dream.]
In the past few months it seems I've become a personal lullaby jukebox.
Before snuggling down to sleep, my three-year-old daughter, Annabelle, asks me to sing two, three or five of her favorite songs, often specifying song order and volume.
Lately Annabelle has been keeping things simpler though. Her only request has been that I sing "Over the Rainbow" - again and again and again. She often murmurs lovely questions as she listens.
"Mommy? Why can't I fly over the rainbow?"
"'What's 'whyohwhyohwhy'?"
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Yeah, I know. Rainbows. Lullabies. I realize I'm at risk of being schmaltzy here.
But I do have a point, writers, and I think it's one worth making in all of the colors, as big as the sky.
Who says you can't still go for a really big dream? Figuratively speaking, why can't you fly over rainbows?
Because at some point in your writing life, you knew exactly what you wanted.
- You got up early to write every day.
- You drafted your first chapters with optimism, hope and energy.
- You launched your freelance business intending to make damn good money, thank you very much.
Now is the perfect time to discover if your writing dream is still colorful and vibrant or perhaps a bit faded at the edges. Read on for three ways to recharge your writing dream.
#1. Step Back.
The only way to see your dream all at once is to step back (waaaay back) from your daily work and writing. To recapture the vividness and color of your writing vision, get out of your daily routine and take time to look at the bigger picture. What does your writing goal really look like?
Clarifying your goals offers you two shifts in perspective.
- First you're able to make out the overall shape and contours of your dream.
- Then you're able to add color, texture and details.
If you have a chance,take an hour this weekend and freewrite at a local library or cafe. Enjoy your mini-escape and do some daydreaming. Then define your dream as vividly as you can:
- what you want to achieve,
- why it matters to you, and
- what your writing life looks like on a daily basis.
#2. Build Up Your Belief.
Do you believe it's really possible to write what matters most?
To work productively and passionately, you've got to spark and nurture belief in your project. Create time each day to build your belief that you really can do it. Read inspirational books, blogs and interviews. But don't forget that the most inspiring, belief-building thing you can do is to sit down and actually get to work on your project. Write.
#3. Choose Your Best Supports.
Recharge your writing dream by seeking out people who actively value and support your ambitions. Proactively decide who will be the best supports for you.
- Will you hire a coach to keep you accountable, help you gain momentum and teach you to manage your work habits, projects or attitudes more efficiently? (Clients who hire me often see major transformations in these areas in as little as two months).
- Will you lock a trusted friend into bi-weekly writing dates (live or virtual), accountability check-ins or cheering sessions?
- Will you push yourself to meet a writing contest deadline, no matter what?
The writing life can be solitary, but it need not be lonely. Trust yourself to create the best community you can to support your work.
And get busy recharging your precious writing dream!
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